Naming the PTBNL

For those of you who follow baseball, you know what a PTBNL is. That's the back-end of a trade, usually a minor league player; a throw-in on a deal. Many times, a PTBNL (Player To Be Named Later) will be selected from a small list of players, chosen by the acquiring team.

In this instance, however, the PTBNL is a little boy who will be joining our family in a matter of three months or so. Valerie and I have done some things differently with this, our last, pregnancy. We kept the news a secret for as long as possible, we've quietly discussed names between only ourselves. This is a pregnancy for she and I to share, in as much as a pregnancy can be shared. She is, after all, the only one actually carrying the baby.

Anyhow, after a LOT of back and forth, each one of us vetoing suggestions made by the other, we narrowed the working list down to a few names. Valerie and I were watching a game show the other night and casually mentioning names to one another. The contestants were being introduced and Valerie said "okay, we'll name him whatever the third contestant's name is." She was joking, of course, but the laughing stopped when the third contestant's name was revealed (you're on the edge of your seat now, aren't you?). This name was one Valerie and I had mentioned before, and we had both kinda liked it.

Given our history with this name, and the "sign" we were given by having it pop up when Valerie made her off-hand suggestion, it just felt right to go ahead and decide on that one.

So we spent the next however long discussing a first and middle name combination and eventually settled, I think on what our PTBNL will be named, when he's named... later. Nothing is etched in stone (or on a birth certificate), so there remains a chance that we could change our minds. But for now, anyway, I think he's got a name.

In just about 10 weeks, the world will get to meet a little boy by the name of......